Phone conversation topics dating
However, if you prefer to move to the phone before meeting or if you’re talking to someone who prefers that, I would recommend the following.
When I offer advice on the first date, I recommend lots of planning (see my post on first date conversations that I mentioned above).
On a first date go for a friendly tone rather than an intimate tone when asking this question. Don’t be afraid to change plans if you arrive at a restaurant and find it’s too noisy for a good conversation.
Why: This shows you're considerate of other people's comfort. Why: If they still live with their Mom or they live with 10 roommates, this tells you something about how they like to live.
The number 1 choice doesn't work because putting pressure on someone is not good.There aren’t hard and fast rules about what’s a good vs. Research has shown that the most effective communication style in relationships is a flexible one. Why: This is primarily relevant if you're either an extreme night or an extreme morning person. The examples below are intended to stimulate your own ideas rather than as rules. Why: Is the person about to make any major life changes e.g., leave their 0K/year job to go back to school? Do they see it as a job, a vocation, or are they primarily motivated by climbing the career ladder? Finding out whether you find each other’s company interesting over the phone requires more than a quick five-minute conversation.Therefore, I suggest that you have a fairly long first conversation – around 20 minutes or so to get a feel for each other.